Assalamualaikum,
Everyday we encounter different issues, drama and events around us. Sometimes it brings joy or sadness and the other day it just a plain boring day.
There's time when you just want to scream and let go your anger, finish all the issues one at a time and feel relax. Is it that simple? I used to be like that, scolding and screaming at people and give an expression " serve your right".. Like only me who right. Is that will settle a problem?? Sure not. Hatred will increase and respect will lost.
What type of person actually we want to be? Why somebody is naturally acting smooth and the other guy acting so rebellious? Why not everyone born in a good manner and behave accordingly? How to mould a good quality and characteristics so we can face daily obstacles wisely and make no mistakes?? Mistakes make us believe that we are not good and automaticcally our morale will down. Temptation in life make us feel more smaller if we cant compete orderly.
All this question keep lingers in my mind since I never have the time to analyze it. Analyzing our misery can lead to a solution. Yes, i believe that. But, how often we realize the important to make a tangled problem solved? It will be more easier if we write down each issue that not satisfy us. Then debate on that issue. Pro and cons, right or wrong, fallacies or fact, all will come clear if we write it out. No need to talk to people at first, we just discuss it in our mind and arguing it like we were in the courtroom. Is that necessary, is this appropriate? Could this be like something else or do i need to do that.. Etc2..
If we already fight it in our mind, then be happy to hear what other people think about it. There were times I were amazed by what other people think of my issues, in another side of perspective I will never ever imagine and encounter. After that, search again other valueable thoughts that can strenghten self opinion until you, yourself satisfied with the conclusion.
Sure thing it all takes time, and sometimes we will lost in our quest. When we remember it another time, we feel like why is this problem not yet been solved? And we have to start all over again. Tired.
So, for now, I want to teach my brain to think more into problems to find not solution, but find my valid opinion about it. What makes me have to avoid that issues, or do i have to solve it.
CLEVER PEOPLE SOLVE PROBLEMS, WISE PEOPLE AVOID IT. -quoted
#justmytangledthoughts #selfmotivation #maturycomeswithexperiencenotage #lostinmyownmind
Everyday we encounter different issues, drama and events around us. Sometimes it brings joy or sadness and the other day it just a plain boring day.
There's time when you just want to scream and let go your anger, finish all the issues one at a time and feel relax. Is it that simple? I used to be like that, scolding and screaming at people and give an expression " serve your right".. Like only me who right. Is that will settle a problem?? Sure not. Hatred will increase and respect will lost.
What type of person actually we want to be? Why somebody is naturally acting smooth and the other guy acting so rebellious? Why not everyone born in a good manner and behave accordingly? How to mould a good quality and characteristics so we can face daily obstacles wisely and make no mistakes?? Mistakes make us believe that we are not good and automaticcally our morale will down. Temptation in life make us feel more smaller if we cant compete orderly.
All this question keep lingers in my mind since I never have the time to analyze it. Analyzing our misery can lead to a solution. Yes, i believe that. But, how often we realize the important to make a tangled problem solved? It will be more easier if we write down each issue that not satisfy us. Then debate on that issue. Pro and cons, right or wrong, fallacies or fact, all will come clear if we write it out. No need to talk to people at first, we just discuss it in our mind and arguing it like we were in the courtroom. Is that necessary, is this appropriate? Could this be like something else or do i need to do that.. Etc2..
If we already fight it in our mind, then be happy to hear what other people think about it. There were times I were amazed by what other people think of my issues, in another side of perspective I will never ever imagine and encounter. After that, search again other valueable thoughts that can strenghten self opinion until you, yourself satisfied with the conclusion.
Sure thing it all takes time, and sometimes we will lost in our quest. When we remember it another time, we feel like why is this problem not yet been solved? And we have to start all over again. Tired.
So, for now, I want to teach my brain to think more into problems to find not solution, but find my valid opinion about it. What makes me have to avoid that issues, or do i have to solve it.
CLEVER PEOPLE SOLVE PROBLEMS, WISE PEOPLE AVOID IT. -quoted
#justmytangledthoughts #selfmotivation #maturycomeswithexperiencenotage #lostinmyownmind